Tinder Done For You? [7 Reasons To Outsource Tinder To A Dating Expert!]
Tinder does work - it’s been the most popular dating app in the US for over a decade now. In fact, Tinder reported that 55% of people under 30 who use dating apps have had a serious relationship with someone they met on Tinder.
If only it were that easy.
Unless you happen to be a branding expert, image consultant, or a professional writer, the initial promise of all Tinder has to offer can quickly turn into an exercise in frustration.
Success hinges on effectively marketing yourself to the type of matches you want to date, which is no easy feat.
And that’s why so many guys hire a Tinder expert to do it all for them.
We’ve been helping singles since 2009, handling every aspect of modern dating for them. We’ve logged hundreds of thousands of hours on Tinder since it launched in 2012, using it daily to swipe, match, and message on behalf of the clients we represent.
Our team understands this popular dating app inside and out, and we know firsthand why it’s better and faster for most guys to outsource their online dating to a Tinder professional.
Here are 7 reasons why it makes sense to hire an expert to do Tinder for you:
#1: You’ll save a ton of time - and skip straight to the date.
If you’ve been on the apps for more than a minute, you already know how time consuming they can be. But if you don’t put in the work, you won’t reap the rewards.
Tinder, like most dating apps, prioritize users who engage positively with the platform. So if you’re not logging in daily, checking out your Top Picks, keeping up with your conversations, etc., you’re shooting yourself in the foot.
This is especially important for men, because they tend to outnumber women by a large margin. Tinder wants the app to be a good experience for women, so it promotes the profiles of men who actively engage.
And let's not forget the swiping - all that swiping. Tinder has a huge user base, so you’ve no doubt spent hours scrolling through your endless feed searching for potential matches who check all your boxes.
Do you really want to spend your evenings glued to yet another device?
When you hire a Tinder expert, you’re also hiring a personal matchmaker who does all the curating for you.
That means you can look forward to first dates with singles who have already been screened for compatibility by a professional - and they’re excited to meet you, too.
#2: You’ll attract higher quality matches.
The majority of swiping decisions are made in less than a second, which means Tinder is *all* about photos.
If you’re not using a data-driven approach to decide which photos to use and what order to put them in, your lineup isn’t as strong as it could be (even if you're using Tinder's Smart Photos feature.)
VIDA Select’s team of photo experts do exactly that, and a lot more. It’s not just about looking good in a Tinder photo - what that image conveys about you also helps determine which way that swipe will go.
And then once you’ve matched, your photo lineup and bio needs to entice your match to want to spend time with you. It’s all about conveying your lifestyle in a way that attracts the exact type of women you want to date.
We pull out all the best tricks to make you look your absolute best, from natural looking touch-ups done in-house by a Photoshop pro to determining exactly what type of lifestyle pictures you need in your lineup. And we’ll craft an engaging bio that backs it all up.
#3: You’ll be represented by seasoned pros.
Compelling photos are essential on Tinder, but they just get your foot in the door. You also need a compelling bio and messaging skills that make her choose to engage with you - instead of all those other guys.
Message exchanges are fast on Tinder, and you have to work hard to keep her interest. If you’re a writer who’s hilarious, witty and lightning-quick on your toes, you’ll probably do just fine. But not everyone is born a great writer - so why not hire one?
When you outsource Tinder, you’ll be represented by a professional writer skilled at representing clients in an authentic and genuine way.
And with VIDA, you’ll also have a matchmaker, personal stylist, dating coach, and professional photographer on hand, all working to support you in your quest for your ideal partner.
Instead of starting the long journey to master the art of modern dating for yourself, you can simply reap the rewards of our skills, data analysis and thousands of hours of experience. We know what works, and more importantly, what doesn't.
Why waste your time reinventing the wheel when you don’t need to?
And if you are a fan of the DIY approach, then skipping the long learning curve by watching your Tinder specialist in action is the way to go.
#4: You’ll benefit from data-driven strategies.
Give yourself the best chance for success by benefitting from dating experts who analyze data and trends to determine the best way to optimize your profile, bio, photos, and messaging.
At VIDA, our Tinder professionals stay ahead of online dating trends so they can adapt their approach in response to the platform’s algorithm and user preferences. These data-driven strategies allow them to tailor your profile and messages to boost your match rate and meet quality singles.
#5: You can escape rejection.
There’s no magical Tinder message that works 100% of the time.
That’s why we test our conversation starters on thousands of women, and have an arsenal of icebreakers that get girls responding enthusiastically most of the time.
But even with the best material, some women just won’t reply.
And if your profile doesn’t compel intriguing women to match with you in the first place, Tinder is a very frustrating place to be.
Over time, those failures tend to take a toll. According to researchers, using Tinder can lower your self-esteem, and dating app users report higher levels of anxiety, psychological distress, and depression.
But with VIDA on your team, you get to skip all that painful rejection and ghosting and get right to the best part: Enjoying your time with women who are totally into you.
#6: You’re not doing this alone.
Glued to your phone, swiping through a number of profiles, hoping to come across ‘the one’, and crossing your fingers that you are their type too… can feel isolating.
You can go from feeling hopeful to overwhelmed and frustrated when things don’t work out according to plan. Sometimes the one you ‘like’ isn’t a match or someone ghosts you mid-conversation.
Hiring VIDA’s dating professionals provides you with an expert who takes over the frustrating bits of online dating, and you’ll also have their emotional support – from someone who understands your dating struggles and is actively working towards finding your person.
#7: You want to stop swiping and start dating.
Think about all the things in your life you can say “I've got a guy for that.” Fixing your car, managing your money, guiding your fitness routine… Why not add Tinder to that list?
VIDA can help you meet women on just about any dating app or site you want to use, like Hinge, Bumble, Match, The League, and more.
The first step is easy and it takes less than a minute: Find out if you qualify for VIDA’s modern matchmaking service.
All you have to do is go here and answer a few quick questions. If you qualify, you’ll be immediately invited to book a free consultation to learn exactly how the service will work for you!
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