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3 Best Matchmakers For Cape Coral Singles

Looking for the top Cape Coral matchmakers? Meeting highly compatible singles is worth the investment. But making the right hiring decision is crucial if you want the best results.

After all, it’s an investment of not only your money, but your time and trust as well. Doing your research is smart - and it just got a lot easier.

We've spent countless hours researching & analyzing over 200 matchmaking services. Our expertise comes from 14+ years of experience in the industry, coupled with our keen understanding of what clients value most in a matchmaking service.

These 3 top Cape Coral matchmakers are worth considering!

VIDA Select, Scott Valdez

Scott Valdez

Offering a more modern approach to matchmaking, VIDA Select’s matchmaking team has access to the largest source of eligible Southwest Florida singles there is!

And unlike other Cape Coral matchmakers, VIDA Select offers the convenience of paying by the month. That means you don’t risk paying for matchmaking service you don’t end up needing if you meet someone special right away.


The majority of VIDA Select’s clients are successful professionals seeking a serious relationship. They’re looking for “The One!”

Cost & Contract Details

Three levels of matchmaking service are offered: Basic, Premium and Elite. Package prices depend in part on the number of hours that matchmakers should spend looking for your ideal partner each month. Factors like how broad or specific your matching criteria are and how many cities you’d like included in your search are taken into account. 

All matchmaking packages are paid by month, and can be paused, stopped and resumed at any time. On average, it takes just 3 months for clients to meet someone special!

Basic matchmaking service begins at $1195 per month, Premium options start at $1795 and Elite packages begin at just $2595 per month.

What To Expect

After completing a quick screening process, the first step is a phone consultation to learn more about how the matchmaking in Cape Coral will work.

Next is an in-depth interview with your dedicated matchmaker. She’ll learn all about your lifestyle, career, personality, hobbies and interests, etc. You’ll also describe your ideal partner, including deal-breakers, must-haves and more.

All of this information will be utilized as your matchmaking team selects highly compatible singles for you to meet. You’ll approve each potential match after reviewing a profile and photos. No more lackluster, disappointing blind dates!

In addition to matchmaking, VIDA Select also offers an array of complementary services like dating coaching, styling, image consulting and more.

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My Top Matchmaker, Mimi Lee

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A matchmaker for over 20 years, Mimi Lee started her career working with celebrity matchmaker Patti Stanger. Deciding to branch out on her own and returning to her Florida roots, she launched My Top Matchmaker to help singles in Southwest Florida. 

Lee has offices in Naples and Sarasota. She also works with clients dating in cities like Cape Coral, Marcus Island, and Bonita Springs.


MTM specializes in helping singles who are divorced or widowed and re-entering the dating scene. The majority of clients in her database are 45+ and seeking serious relationships.

Cost & Contract Details

Like many matchmaking services, Mimi Lee doesn’t disclose her pricing or contract details online. But based on online reviews, you can safely expect costs to start in the $5,000 range. 

What To Expect

The first step to working with this Cape Coral matchmaker is a free consultation. You’ll learn more about Lee’s process, and share what type of Florida singles you’re hoping to meet. 

If you decide her service is a good fit, you’ll first need to pass a background verification as well as take a drug test. 

Once those have been completed and you’ve signed the contract, the next step is a two-hour interview process where she’ll learn more about you. This information will be used to identify compatible matches for you to meet. Once matched, she'll make all the date arrangements for you.

Lee matches clients with other clients from her database of approximately 1,200. She also uses local marketing techniques to identify potentially compatible singles.

She often employs an “opposites attract” strategy when pairing her clients. As she explains on her website, “We often use the technique of matching opposites in character, feeling that the pair will balance each other.”

A traditional matchmaker, Lee also says she takes a “hand-crafted” approach rather than using any computer programs.

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Cinqe Matchmaking, Erica Arrechea

Erica Arrechea

Headquartered in California, Erica Arrechea’s matchmaking service has a presence in Florida and works with singles all over the US.


Cinqe specializes in matchmaking for busy executives and other successful professionals. Members range from 25 to 80. 

Cost & Contract Details

A high-end matchmaking service, clients generally pay $35,000 to $150,000 for their matchmaking service. Costs can range north of $200,000, depending on your search factors and dating requirements.

Contracts vary in length, but span a minimum of 6 months. As Arrechea points out on her website,

Our contracts are longer simply because finding love takes time. Scheduling matches specialized for you can take weeks and months.

Joining Cinqe’s national database of members is free for both men and women. However, since you’re not paying for an active search done on your behalf, you may never be contacted. For men who join as a free member, there is the expectation that you will pay for the date. 

What To Expect

Prospective clients start by connecting with Cinqe via the contact information on the website or submitting a profile for consideration. 

You’ll be contacted by a member of the matchmaking team to set up an interview. 

Contract details like cost and length will be determined based on your matching criteria, locations you’d like to date in, etc. You’ll also be able to see potential matches from the Cinqe database. There is a “small fee” for this consultation.

If you decide to move forward, you’ll sign the contract and the Cinqe team begins your search. You’ll receive an unlimited number of profiles to review, sent one at a time as they are identified. 

When you approve a match, the date details will be arranged. However, you’ll be the one to contact the match to confirm all the details. 

Cinqe also offers dating and styling advice.

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