How To Get Attractive Women To Contact You First

Scott Valdez Reveals How He Gets Women To Show Interest First…

Guys email me all the time asking me how to get women to contact them first. I definitely get that question – after all, women who contact you first already like you, so meeting up with them should be a walk in the park!

When a guy asks me how to get women to start conversations with him online, the first thing I typically do is to take a look inside his online dating account to see what he’s already doing to attract women.

All too often, I find guys making a common mistake that does not make women want to contact them; in fact, women feel REPELLED. What’s worse, most guys actually think that this TERRIBLE mistake is a good idea.…

That mistake is… winking.

Here’s the problem:

Logically, winking makes sense. If you wink enough women, SOMEONE will reply eventually…


Uhhh… in theory.

But to a woman, winkers are desperate. Winkers don’t care who responds – they are not selective… They just want somebody – ANYBODY – to respond…

If your main strategy to get women to talk to you is winking, you’re going about it all wrong. Most women will assume that you didn’t even read their profile, and you’re just a lazy dating site spammer with nothing going on in his life worth talking about…

How To Get Women To Contact You First

If you want women to contact you so that setting up a date becomes consistent and effortless, you need to have some bait to entice them.

In other words, you have to present yourself to women online in a manner that attracts them from far away.

To do this, you need to have a compelling and sexy profile.

A solid online dating profile acts like a beacon that lets women know you’re a cool, highly desirable guy long before they ever meet you…

But in order for your profile to attract women, it must engage them on an EMOTIONAL level…

Most men don’t know how to write in a way that moves someone emotionally. In fact, most internet dating profiles are nothing more than boring lists of credentials.

The trick to engaging women in a way that moves their emotions is to paint a picture of what your life is like with words.

Don’t just say you like surfing; describe surfing in romantic and adventurous detail so that a woman can really experience being on a surfboard when she reads your profile.

For example, you can say:

I never pass up an opportunity to take my surfboard out and pierce the sparkling ocean first thing in the AM. Nothing beats the rush of throwing on my wetsuit and feeling my heart pump and muscles tingle as I barrel into a ten-foot wave. My parents think I’m nuts, but they still encourage me to put my work side and clear my mind for a bit while I train for the next big competition.

This example lets women imagine exactly what it’s like to HAVE FUN with you.

This is powerfully attractive, especially after she’s just read a dozen BORING dating profiles from other lovable losers.

I go into much MUCH more detail on how to spark deep attraction with women by “painting a picture” with your dating profile in the Click Magnet Dating System. If you want a complete education on how to consistently have attractive women contacting you for dates, then try Click Magnet™ RISK FREE for 30 days

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