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3 Best Matchmakers In Kansas City [Reviews & Cost]

Many singles turn to professional matchmakers in Kansas City out of frustration with the dating - and online dating - scene. 

If you want to meet compatible, interesting, relationship-worthy people, start by checking out the 3 best Kansas City matchmakers!

KC Matchmaker: Courtney Quinlan

Courtney Quinlan

Service: Midwest Matchmaking

This personal matchmaking service is headquartered in Omaha. In fact, Omaha Love was its former name. But after expanding to help singles in cities around the entire region find love, the name changed to Midwest Matchmaking to make it more reflective of the areas they serve.

You’ll find offices in Kansas City, Chicago, Sioux Falls, and Des Moines.


Midwest Matchmaking works with men and women over 25 who are seeking long-term relationships.


It's free to have your profile included in the matchmaking database, however you may never meet anyone via the service. Matchmaking prices aren’t disclosed on the website, but you can likely expect to spend around $1,800 for the 6-month option or $3,600 for a year’s worth of service. 


Yes, memberships are typically 6 or 12 months.

What To Expect

If you just want to be listed in their database of Kansas City singles, you can submit your profile via the website.

Potential clients can also start the process by filling out a questionnaire on the website, and Quinlan or one of her matchmakers in Kansas City will reach out. During the complimentary one hour consultation, you’ll discuss the membership levels and what level of service you’d like.

Options include the Platinum membership, where your matchmaker will actively scout for matches on your behalf as well as pair you with singles from the database. You’ll also work directly with Quinlan.

At the Gold level, your profile won’t be viewable in the database to other paying clients. At the Silver level, you can find compatible matches by viewing the database yourself.  

Midwest Matchmaking doesn't guarantee a particular number of introductions. You’ll be contacted when a compatible match has been selected. If you and your match agree to meet, the date is coordinated. You'll also have a post-date feedback session with your matchmaker.

A first date is typically cocktails or coffee, or a virtual date. Members can also attend events hosted by Midwest Matchmaking.

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KC Matchmaker: Suzanna Mathews

Suzanna Mathews

Service: The Date Maven

This Kansas matchmaking service is based in Wichita. But Suzanna Mathews and her team work with singles from all over the state - and beyond. She’s a member of the Matchmaker’s Alliance, and uses that network to help clients with local, national and international searches.


Mathews is a boutique matchmaker and only works with 3 to 5 clients at a time. Generally she works with singles in their 30s and ready for a serious relationship, and older people who find themselves single after the end of a long-term relationship.


Pricing isn't disclosed on the website and appears to vary by client. You can expect to spend up to several thousand dollars for a matchmaking package.



What To Expect

Mathews tends to combine dating coaching with matchmaking services. The first step to becoming a client is a consultation to discuss your particular situation, dating challenges, and relationship goals.

If you proceed with a matchmaking package, you’ll be paired with singles in her database. She also sources matches via her connections with the Matchmaker’s Alliance.

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KC Matchmaker: Scott Valdez

Scott Valdez

Service: VIDA Select

With access to a virtually unlimited database of Kansas City singles and an elite matchmaking team ready to help you navigate every step of the dating process, it’s no wonder VIDA Select has helped so many people find their perfect match!


VIDA Select is an exclusive matchmaking service for successful, accomplished singles seeking to meet high-quality, highly compatible matches.


Three levels of matchmaking service are offered: Basic, Premium and Elite. Basic matchmaking packages start at $995 per month, with Premium packages starting at just $1595 each month. Elite options begin at only $2395 per month.

Monthly package cost is highly correlated by the number of hours that should be devoted to your search, taking into account factors like match criteria, geographic areas, and which matchmaker you work with.

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What To Expect

Potential clients start with a brief screening process to see if you qualify for VIDA Select’s modern matchmaking service. If so, you can schedule a short, complimentary consultation with a matchmaking advisor.

Your dedicated personal matchmaker gets to know you better through an in-depth interview. You’ll describe in detail who you envision as your “ideal partner” - everything from the physical characteristics you find most attractive to compatible personality types and lifestyle choices.

Then, you'll start to review all the matches hand-selected for compatibility, and there are no limits to the number of matches you may meet! 

VIDA Select’s matchmakers excel at what they do and on average clients meet someone incredible after just 11 dates.

That’s one of the reasons there are no long-term contracts required. You pay only for the time you’d like to meet new people, on a month-to-month basis. Stop, start, and pause your service as needed - you’re in the driver’s seat! 

If you meet someone right away, or feel like the modern approach isn’t the right one for you, simply don’t continue your matchmaking service for the next month. It’s that easy.

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