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The 3 Most Exclusive Dating Apps

Exclusive dating apps filter out the riff raff, restricting the dating pool to only those users with enough game to make it past the velvet ropes. But which ones actually work?

These are the 3 best exclusive dating apps to try if you’re looking for the high quality matches you can’t find on mainstream apps like Tinder and Bumble!

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Luxy bills itself as Tinder for millionaires and wealthy singles, or as the app’s CEO put it - Tinder minus the poor and unattractive.

Luxy vouch in process

Prospective users are vetted during the “vouching process” - a 24-hour period where Luxy members vote yay or nay based on your photo and profile.

You can opt out of the approval process by immediately upgrading to Luxy Black (starting at $99 a month, or $79.99/3 months; $58.99/6 months).

And if you don’t survive the vouching phase, you can still join the elite by verifying your income. Which, by the way, has to be north of $200,000 a year.

Most of the members on Luxy are CEOs, doctors, lawyers, investors, pro athletes, celebrities, and the like. You’ll find the occasional fake profile, but most of the singles you meet will be high quality, successful people looking for a partner of the same caliber.

Luxy is free to download, and the swipe right/left format is nothing new. Basic users are limited to swiping through 10 profiles at time, with a max of 3 rounds per day. Luxy Black users are given 6 rounds a day, along with other benefits such as:

  • The ability to message other users, whether you’re matched with them or not
  • Premium search features like location, income, and verification status
  • Invisible browsing, where other users can’t see you unless you’ve “liked” them

For an in-depth Luxy review, click here.

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The League

The League exclusive dating app

When it comes to exclusive dating apps, The League is one of the biggest players. This app has a massive waitlist, a selective algorithm and a panel of reviewers — so make sure your Facebook and LinkedIn credentials are worthy.

But once you’re in, you are bound to meet some of the most elite singles in your area. The League attracts highly successful people from tech, consulting, and finance, although a growing number of people are in more creative fields like the fashion industry.

The League privacy options

The League value’s the privacy of its users, and you maintain control over who can see your profile. That means your coworkers and LinkedIn contacts won’t pop up as matches.

You can use this dating app for free as a “Guest,” but with limitations. Guests get a max of 3 matches per day, sent at 5:00 pm.

There are two premium levels: Member and Owner. Members get up to 5 matches per day, with the ability to check out an additional 2 profiles daily. You’ll also get perks like read receipts.

Joining as a Member starts at $99 a month, or a total of $349 if you purchase a year-long subscription.

Owners get up to 7 matches daily, with the opportunity to view more using the 300 tickets that come with your membership. You can also use tickets to boost your profile, undo a swipe, and rematch with someone.

Other perks including seeing who “liked” your profile already and receiving matches from any League city you’d like to date in.

Becoming an Owner isn’t cheap, but the $199/month or $999/year gets you into a very exclusive club.

Right now The League is only available in 30+ cities around the world. But if you are looking for The One and live in a city like San Francisco, New York, or LA, this is a great place to start.

For a full rundown on this exclusive dating app, go here.

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Millionaire Match

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MillionaireMatch is one of the best online dating sites to find attractive, highly responsive singles, and the app is no different.

As with any exclusive dating app, your pedigree matters. MillionaireMatch offers income verification, and the “certified millionaire” status definitely gives you street cred.

The app attracts its fair share of women looking for a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship, but if you’re looking for the total package, she’s going to want assurance that you’re the real deal.

Basic usage of the app is free, and upgrading to Gold membership starts at $69.99/1 month, $139.99/3 months, $209.99/6 months (subject to change).

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