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The Best Vietnamese Dating Sites & Apps [Top 7 List]

Whether you’re dating in Vietnam or looking to find high-quality Vietnamese singles before booking your trip, the last thing you want to do is waste your time with dating sites and apps that don’t get results.

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These are the top 7 Vietnamese dating sites and apps, so start your search here!


Vietnam Cupid website

If you’re in Southeast Asia right now or willing to fly there to meet the perfect Vietnamese woman, VietnamCupid is an Asian dating site you need to check out!

It’s one of several international dating sites operated by the Cupid Media company, which has a stellar reputation in the industry.

Joining is free, and so is using all the detailed Vietnam Cupid search filters.

You can filter your matches by willingness to relocate, languages spoken, and when they were last active on the site, as well as all the usual criteria like physical appearance, religion, occupation, etc.

If you want to get the best results on VietnamCupid, consider purchasing a premium membership.

Vietnam Cupid Cost

Free members can only read and reply to messages from paid members. So you’ll need either a Gold or a Platinum membership if you want the ability to communicate with any beautiful Vietnamese single who catches your eye.

VietnamCupid membership features

The Gold membership on VietnamCupid starts around $30 for a one month, while the Platinum membership costs around $35 for a month.

Want To Meet Other Southeast Asian Women?

AsianDating screenshot

If you have multiple Asian countries on your itinerary, or you’re open to meeting women from different parts of Asia, Cupid Media’s AsianDating site is also worth checking out.

It’s essentially the same structure as VietnamCupid - you can create a profile and search for intriguing Asian singles for free.

Free members are restricted to communicating only with paid users, so you’ll want a Gold or Platinum membership in order to exchange messages with any of the beautiful Asian women you’ll find on the site.

The price of a premium membership is the same on both international dating sites.


YMeetMe Vietnamese Dating App

This Vietnam dating app is popular with Vietnamese women. It maintains a secure online dating environment by actively screening for inappropriate language, photos, and user behavior.

There are also multiple ways to verify your profile is legit, and the app automatically removes users who aren’t very active. That means you won’t find too many fakes or flakes on YMeetMe.

You can exchange messages with any user you like, provided the interest is mutual.

There’s also a section where you can be randomly paired with someone for 24 hours, during which time you can exchange messages. After a day, if both users decide to “like” each other you can keep messaging.

YMeetMe Cost

Using the basic features is free, but you’ll need a 1, 3, or 6-month paid subscription to access advanced features like Chat and Spotlight.

“Spotlight” is similar to Tinder’s “Boost”, where your profile is featured prominently in your area for a short amount of time.

You can also purchase “Coins” to unlock advanced features on a per-use basis. They cost VND20,000 for 96, VND50,000 for 180, and VND100,000 for 450.

You can also earn free coins by actively using the app - for instance you get 5 coins for signing in on 3 consecutive days.

The app is designed for Vietnamese singles dating each other. So if you don’t speak the language you may want to stick with other popular Vietnamese dating apps like Tinder or Okcupid.


Tinder website

A go-to dating app for singles living all over the world, Tinder is popular in Vietnam - especially with the 35-and-under crowd. But you’ll likely find eligible singles of all ages seeking a wide assortment of relationships.

Because it’s a location-based app, you’ll find the biggest dating pools in large cities like Ho Chi Minh and Hanoi.

Only a small percentage of Tinder users live in rural areas. So if you’re not in a population dense area stick with a Vietnamese dating site like VietnamCupid.

Odds are you’ve already tried Tinder, or you’re at least familiar with the premise. But just in case… swipe → to like a profile, swipe ← to pass. Mutual interest = a match, and you can then exchange messages.

Tinder is a solid option if you want a totally free Vietnamese dating app. Swiping through profiles and exchanging unlimited messages with your matches doesn’t cost a thing.

The only catch is you’re limited to “liking” 100 profiles in 12 hours, and you’d be surprised how quickly you can reach that limit!

For unrestricted swiping, you’ll need to invest in a subscription.

Tinder offers 3 upgrade levels: Plus, Gold and Platinum. They range in price from $7.99 to $35+ for one month, with where you live partially depending the cost.

For a comprehensive Tinder review, go here.


OkCupid screenshot

Another dating site and app that’s enormously popular the world over, you could be missing out on meeting some incredible Vietnamese singles if you don’t check out OkCupid while you’re dating in Vietnam.

It’s practically a must if you’re within dating distance of a university, as OkCupid attracts college age Vietnamese singles like a magnet.

OkCupid is a legit, totally free Vietnamese dating site. You can send an icebreaker to anyone you’d like, with just one hitch - it only pops up in her inbox if she has already expressed interest in your profile.

If she hasn’t “liked” your profile yet, it will be featured in her Search, Double Take, and Discovery feeds. Your first message will be visible on your profile.

You’ll definitely want to put some thought into your OkCupid profile, because your first message only shows up in her inbox if she’s “liked” your profile already.

OkCupid Cost

There are two premium membership levels which come with handy perks like seeing who has “liked” your profile and filtering your matches by attractiveness level. Memberships start at $34.99 for a single month.

For a full rundown on pricing, features and other details on whether or not you should pay for OkCupid, check out this guide to upgrading OkCupid.


coffee meets bagel app

Swiping not your thing? CoffeeMeetsBagel is the app for you if you don’t have a ton of time to spend scrolling through profile after profile.

Most popular with Vietnamese singles in their 20s or 30s, CoffeeMeetsBagel is designed for people who are seeking serious relationships, and only want a handful of high quality matches each day.

Every day at noon, guys receive up to 21 “Bagels,” which are profiles of Vietnamese women who meet their specified criteria. Women don’t get as many daily Bagels, but the profiles they receive are all of men who have already “liked” them.

When two people “like” the other’s profile, a “connection” is formed and you can exchange messages.

There are two strict time limits you need to know about, though.

For starters, you only have 24 hours to “like” or “pass” on your daily matches. If you don’t make a decision, those matches expire at noon when your new Bagels are presented.

CMB chat window is 8 days

The other deadline is imposed on the message exchange - you only have 8 days to move your conversation off the app.

You can also check out profiles in the “Discover” area, but “taking” (CMB’s term for “liking” a profile), isn’t free. You’ll have to spend a few beans, which are the app’s internal form of currency. Beans can be purchased in bulk quantity, or earned along the way as you use the app.

Coffee Meets Bagel Cost

Upgrading to a premium membership ($34.99/month), allows you to “take” up to 5 bagels in the Discover section without spending beans. Paid subscribers can also see mutual friends for each match, and an Activity Report for other users.

The Activity Report is a good way to see if someone actively uses the app, so you can avoid using up one of your free “takes” on a user who isn’t serious about meeting someone on CoffeeMeetsBagel.

Want to read a full review of CoffeeMeetsBagel? Go here.

Cherry Blossoms

Cherry blossoms screenshot

Having been in business since 1974, Cherry Blossoms is packed with beautiful women from Southeast Asian countries like Vietnam, Thailand, and the Philippines specifically looking to meet westerners.

Cherry Blossoms can even help with relocation when you meet the Vietnamese woman of your dreams - they can help you navigate the paperwork for obtaining fiance and spousal visas.

This international dating site is based in Hawaii, which is to your advantage if you’re also in the US and need customer service. You’ll find help, should you need it, is more readily accessible than it might be on other Asian dating sites.

There are two membership options - a free trial membership with limited access to features, and a Full Use membership:

Cherry blossoms trial and full use membership features

The trial membership basically allows you to create a profile, then search for any Vietnamese women you’d be interested in communicating with. But to actually send or receive messages, you’ll need to upgrade.

Cherry Blossoms Cost

Here is what a Full Use membership on Cherry Blossoms costs:

  • $29.95 for 1 month
  • $49.95 for 3 months
  • $79.95 for 6 months
  • $119.95 for 1 year

For a Cherry Blossoms dating site review, click here.

Date In Asia

date in asia screenshot

Date In Asia is a lot like Plenty of Fish. It’s completely free, which is great.

But like most totally free dating sites, Date In Asia has more than its fair share of fake profiles, flakes, and scammers - which isn’t so great.

You are required to enter a mobile phone number and receive a verification code before you can send any messages, which does help.

There aren’t many bells & whistles; it’s a no frills international dating site created for people all over the world interested in dating Asian singles, many of whom live in Vietnam.

You can browse Vietnamese singles by using the “search by country” feature, and the search filters are fairly detailed:

search criteria

As long as you’re prepared to spend some time carefully screening profiles, you’ll no doubt find some intriguing people on Date In Asia. But if you want higher quality matches across the board, a paid dating site like VietnamCupid is the way to go.

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