💡 Key Takeaways: * GIFs boost engagement significantly - messages with GIFs get 30% more responses and conversations last twice as long * Timing matters for success - you'll generally get the best response rates between 5PM-midnight, and maintain momentum by replying to your messages within 1-24 hours * Key message elements that work: * Keep it PG-13 * Include an easy-to-answer question * Evoke emotion (humor, intrigue, entertainment) * Follow-up strategy is crucial - send one light-hearted second message if no response, but avoid third attempts * Response rate goals - successful messages should get 80%+ response rate; lower rates indicate profile needs improvement You probably already know Tinder messages like this just aren’t cutting it: For most guys, the biggest challenge on Tinder isn’t getting matches - it’s getting the most attractive women to respond to your icebreaker. 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[https://qualify.vidaselect.com/] You can be funny with just words too. TINDER MESSAGE #6: Just make sure to follow these three rules for sending Tinder messages: 1. Keep it PG-13, even on Tinder. Vulgarity from a total stranger is an instant turnoff. 2. Ask her a question. The more effort it takes a woman to reply, the more interested she needs to be to actually do it. If you want to maximize your response rate, make responding to your conversation starters effortless. And if responding is entertaining, even better... 3. Make her feel something. Amused, entertained, intrigued - when your opening message evokes an emotional reaction, chances are she’ll be way more likely to respond. When writing back to that charming guy with a good sense of humor seems effortless and enjoyable, a response is practically guaranteed. TINDER MESSAGE #7: GO WITH WHAT WORKS When you find funny Tinder messages that work for you, be green and recycle them. 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