Best Bellevue Matchmakers [5 Services Compared!]

VIDA Select is a top Bellevue matchmaker with flexible monthly plans starting at $1,595 and sparks after just 11 dates on average. Premium services like Enamour ($20,000+) and local specialists serve Seattle's tech professionals seeking serious relationships in the Eastside's upscale environment.

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Key Insights:

• Best Overall: VIDA Select - Monthly flexibility from $1,595, 82% success rate within 3 months, 4.5-star rating
• Premium Choice: Enamour - $20,000+ for 6 months with exclusive invitation-only database
• Local Specialists: Simply Matchmaking ($5,000-$10,000+) and Seattle Love Broker ($15,000+ for men)
• Celebrity Expertise: Love Architects ($5,000-$100,000+) by TV personality Kailen Rosenberg
• Tech Professional Focus: Services tailored for Bellevue's Microsoft, Amazon, and startup culture

You’ve likely discovered meeting new people isn’t easy, especially if you’re a transplant. Hiring a Bellevue matchmaker makes perfect sense, because with so many demands on your time the last thing you want to do is spend hours on one disappointing date after another. With a matchmaker doing all the curation, you can skip right to the dates with highly compatible singles.

Disclaimer: This guide was researched and written by VIDA Select's editorial team to help singles find the service that best fits their needs and goals. As a matchmaking service ourselves, we bring a unique industry perspective. Our insights come from 17+ years of matchmaking experience, writing 200+ matchmaking service reviews, analyzing public information and reviews on reputable platforms, and feedback from clients who used other services before hiring VIDA. While this guide is updated regularly, it may not reflect current pricing for all services.

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VIDA Select (by Scott Valdez)

If you’re struggling to meet your perfect match and getting more frustrated with Bellevue’s single scene every day, VIDA Select is the solution you’ve been looking for.

VIDA’s matchmakers leverage the biggest source of eligible singles there is, which means you’re not limited to meeting people plucked from a limited database. That’s why the average VIDA client feels sparks after just 11 dates!

Clientele

VIDA Select provides matchmaking services for both men and women, typically successful professionals in their late 20s to mid 60s who want to meet highly compatible, relationship minded Bellevue singles. 

Cost

Monthly packages start at $1,595 with no long-term contract required. There is also the "90-Day Match Guarantee" which includes at least 5 highly curated matches you personally approve for $5,750. Guaranteed results, or the search continues at no additional cost.

With an 82% success rate, the majority of VIDA clients meet someone special in just 3 months.

What To Expect

The decision to hire a matchmaker is a big one, and VIDA isn’t right for everyone. The process begins with a quick screening process. Next is a 20-minute complimentary consultation where you’ll learn more about VIDA’s modern approach to matchmaking.  

Clients then meet with their dedicated matchmaker, who will get to know you, your dating history, your matching criteria, and more. 

You can review a profile and photos of each potential match who’s hand-selected for high compatibility, so you’ll only meet people you’re actually interested in pursuing a relationship with. No more wasted time! 

VIDA also offers an array of services like dating coaching and personal styling. All the expert guidance you need is right at your fingertips.

What Others Are Saying About VIDA Select

On Trustpilot, VIDA has a 4.5-star rating based on over 400 reviews. The predominantly glowing reviews shared that clients had good experiences with the matchmaking process and enjoyed working with their matchmakers. Several people mentioned meeting someone special through the service: 

Enamour

With a laser focus on pinpointing highly compatible matches, Enamour's team curates an exclusive, invitation only database.

If you're ready to meet truly relationship-worthy singles, Enamour should make your short list! The seasoned matchmaking team has been in the industry since 2009.

Cost

Enamour's matchmaking packages start around $20,000 for a 6-month search. Clients can select from an array of options, tailored to meet their specific search requirements.

What To Expect

Like most elite matchmakers, Enamour's process starts with an initial consultation to make sure you're the right fit for the service (and vice versa). Next, you'll be paired with a dedicated personal matchmaker.

During an information-gathering session, she'll learn all about you and your lifestyle, goals, relationship history, etc. You'll also discuss your match criteria and dealbreakers.

The search begins within the curated database, but the team also searches far and wide for exceptional candidates using a variety of recruiting tools and an extensive scouting network.

Those who pass the in-depth vetting process will be presented for your approval. Dates are arranged, and after each one you'll have the opportunity to provide feedback to your matchmaker. She will also check in with your match, passing along any helpful observations and insights you can use to improve your dating process.

Enamour also offers clients an array of complementary services, ranging from personal styling and image consulting to dating coaching and professional photography.

What Others Are Saying About Enamour 

Enamour holds a 4.2 rating on Trustpilot, with 5-star reviewers sharing how much they enjoyed working with their matchmaker. 

Love Architects (by Kailen Rosenberg & Andrew Hanson)

Founded in 2008, Kailen Rosenberg’s matchmaking service is actually headquartered in Minneapolis, MN. But she maintains an office in Bellevue, as well as 20+ other locations around the US. 

A professional matchmaker with over 20 years experience, Rosenberg once appeared on a matchmaking reality TV show. She also wrote a book on how to find your soulmate.

Cost

How much Love Architects costs depends on a number of factors, like whether you work directly with her. Rosenberg’s son Andrew Hanson is the CEO of the matchmaking service, and also takes on clients. He is also the founder of AH Love Advisory.

Pricing also depends on how many locations you’d like included, as Love Architects offers local, national and international searches.

Packages range from $5,000 to over $100,000 to hire Rosenberg, or $5,000 to $50,000 to work with Hanson. A contract is required.

What To Expect 

The first step is filling out the “pre-application” on the website. That costs $25, but the fee is donated to charity. 

If you’re interested in working directly with Rosenberg, the next step is a $1,000 assessment. She’ll use the information from that consultation to create your ‘blueprint’ - an action plan of sorts to help you meet your ideal partner. 

The assessment fee is $500 if you do your consultation with Hanson.

Matchmaking packages are customized to fit the scope of your search and other factors, and some memberships include invitations to members-only events.

Your matches are pulled from the Love Architects database and via scouting if your package allows for it. You can generally expect to meet 5 to 7 matches over the course of your contract. 

What People Are Saying About The Love Architects 

There are limited online reviews for Love Architects and AH Love Advisory. They are not accredited with the Better Business Bureau, nor do they have a Google business page. 

The service has a Yelp rating of 2.3 stars, however, that’s based on only three reviews. The single 5-star review mentioned Kailen’s dedication and passion as a matchmaker:

Further Reading

• The Love Architects Reviews
• AH Love Advisory Reviews

Simply Matchmaking (by Ali Migliore)

Ali Migliore’s professional background is in event planning, but says wanted to be a matchmaker since she was 15. She started her own matchmaking service in 2013 at her husband's suggestion after several interviews with other dating services were unsuccessful.

Simply Matchmaking has two locations - one at 1400 112TH ave SE, and the other in Seattle. She also works with a network of matchmakers along the West Coast. 

Clientele

Migliore generally works with successful men as paying clients, while women pay an interview fee to be matched with them.

Cost

For women, there is a one-time $250 interview fee to be included in the Simply Matchmaking database. However, inclusion is not a guarantee you’ll ever be matched with a male client. 

Simply Matchmaking cost for men varies depending on which package you choose. For instance, one package includes meeting 3 matches over the course of 2 months for $5,000, and some packages run over $10,000.

What To Expect

For both men and women, the process starts with a 90-minute interview. Women are only contacted when the Bellevue matchmakers identify them as a compatible match for a paying client.

Men meet compatible women sourced from the Simply Matchmaking database, or via Migliore’s network connections. Introductions can be in-person or video date, and the arrangements are handled for you. 

After the date, feedback is gathered from both you and the woman you met. If you’re interested in dating coaching, you’ll receive detailed feedback on how the date went from your match’s perspective.

What People Are Saying About Simply Matchmaking

On their Google business listing, the service has a 4.2-star rating with almost 50 reviews. Many of the positive reviews shared that they were introduced to quality matches and had a good experience with the matchmaking process. 

Further Reading

Simply Matchmaking reviews

Seattle Love Broker (Monique Le)

A former stockbroker, Monique Le designed her matchmaking service to help successful men meet highly compatible women. She also offers relationship counselling for both couples and individuals. 

As the name implies, the Seattle Love Broker is headquartered in Northgate, but she works with Bellevue singles as well. She founded the service in 2014.

Clientele

Le typically works with men as paying clients, and matches them with women who have applied to be included in her database.

Cost

For both men and women, the process starts with filling out a registration form online. The $25 application fee is returned if you’re not accepted. 

Women then need to schedule a consultation with Le to be considered as a potential match for her male clients.

The consultation costs $100 if you do it as part of a small group, or $250 if it’s a one-on-one interview. Although she generally only takes on men for active matchmaking, women in some circumstances can pay $5,000 for what she calls “individual ongoing attention.” 

For men, the package prices and options are disclosed during your initial interview. But you can expect to spend in the neighborhood of $15,000 for a 12-month contract. 

What To Expect 

The first step for both women and men is filling out the online questionnaire, then scheduling the initial consultation if your application is accepted.

Women who pass the screening process are added to Le’s database of potential matches. Men fill out a comprehensive questionnaire that helps Le identify compatible women.

You’ll then have a conversation with her either via phone, Skype or face-to-face, and discuss your ideal partner criteria, relationship goals and history, etc.

Introductions are arranged with matches from the Seattle Love Broker database.

What Others Are Saying About Seattle Love Brokers 

On Yelp, the service holds a 3.9-star rating. This person shared that Le introduced them to a good match within their geographic location: 

And this reviewer mentioned Le’s dedication as a matchmaker: 

Further Reading

Seattle Love Broker reviews