Simply Matchmaking Reviews: Is It Worth the 12-Month Contract?

Key Takeaways:

  • Two membership tiers: Join the database for a $275-$500 interview fee and wait to be selected, or pay for a VIP membership so a matchmaker actively searches on your behalf.
  • Pricing ranges widely: VIP memberships start around $500 for men under 30 and can exceed $10,000 for others, with higher-tier packages adding coaching, styling, and national search.
  • 12-month contracts with no match guarantee: Fees are non-refundable and Simply Matchmaking does not promise you will receive any introductions during your contract period.
  • Mixed public reviews: A 4-star Google rating sits alongside a 2.8-star Yelp rating.
  • Pacific Northwest focus: Primarily serves Seattle and Bellevue, though Migliore works with a national matchmaker network for clients seeking a wider search.
  • VIDA Select is the best flexible alternative: No long-term contracts, you pre-approve every match with photos, and 82% of clients meet someone special within 90 days.

Professional matchmaking isn't cheap, and many services (Simply Matchmaking included) ask you to commit to a 12-month contract before the search begins. That's not unusual in this industry. What varies is what you get for that commitment: how many introductions, how much personal attention, and what happens if the results fall short of what you expected.

Simply Matchmaking has worked well for some Seattle singles and left others frustrated. The difference often comes down to understanding exactly what the service is — and isn't — promising before you sign.

This review covers their process, their pricing, and what clients have actually said about the experience, so you can make that call with clear eyes.

Disclaimer: This review was researched and written by VIDA Select's editorial team to help singles determine the right service for their needs and goals. As a matchmaking service ourselves, we bring a unique industry perspective. Our insights come from 17+ years of matchmaking experience, writing 200+ matchmaking service reviews, analyzing public information including reviews on reputable platforms, and feedback from clients who used other services before hiring VIDA. While this review is updated regularly, it may not reflect the latest public data or current pricing.

Who Is Simply Matchmaking?

Ali Migliore Seattle Matchmaker

Simply Matchmaking was founded in Seattle in 2013 by Ali Migliore, a former event planner who had always wanted to work in matchmaking. After interviewing with established firms and not landing a position, she started her own.

Her husband Matt joined as COO and the team also includes 11 matchmakers, a matchmaking director, two online dating specialists, two personal stylists, and a VP of client relations.

The company is rooted in the Pacific Northwest, with the majority of clients in Seattle and Bellevue. Migliore also works with a network of matchmakers all over the country, like Colorado's Abby Rosenblum, for clients who want a broader search. 

Simply Matchmaking website homepage

While Migliore also works with a network of matchmakers all over the country, like Colorado's Abby Rosenblum. But the majority of her clients are in the Pacific Northwest. Many of them live in Seattle and Bellevue.

The service works with a wide range of clients: ages 21 to 80, all orientations, all backgrounds. Migliore has said publicly that if your heart is genuinely in the right place and you're committed to a real relationship, Simply Matchmaking will work with you.

As she told The Ghosted Podcast,

“We service all ages, all ethnicities, all religions, LGBTQ, you name it – if you are truly looking for a committed relationship and your heart is in the right place, you can work with Simply Matchmaking.”

In its early years, the company earned some local recognition: King 5 named it the top matchmaker in Western Washington in 2015, and City Voter called it the best Seattle matchmaking service in 2016 and 2017.

How Simply Matchmaking Works

The process starts with a free 20-minute strategy call to determine whether you're a fit for the service. From there, you choose your path: database member or VIP client.

Infographic explaining the difference between a database member and a paying client at a matchmaking service

As a database member, you pay an interview fee ($275 virtual, $500 in-person) to have your profile added to Simply Matchmaking's pool of potential matches. A matchmaker may select you for introduction to a paying client. But the search is not active on your behalf, you're simply waiting to be chosen.

As a VIP client, a dedicated matchmaker actively works your file. Here is how that typically looks:

  1. Complete your personal interview so your matchmaker understands who you are and exactly who you're looking for.

  2. Your matchmaker hand-selects candidates from the database and arranges all logistics for each date.

  3. Before each date, you receive guidance on what to wear and how to prepare.

  4. After each date, your matchmaker follows up with both sides, collects feedback, and refines the search criteria.

  5. The process continues until you find someone worth pursuing further, or until your 12-month contract concludes.

As Migliore told Dating Advice,

"We get to know every single client who comes through the door. It’s like dating therapy when you sit down with one of us."

How Much Does Simply Matchmaking Cost?

For a chance to meet their VIP clients by having your profile in the database, there is a $275 virtual interview fee. If you do the interview in person, there’s a $500 fee.

Signing up as a paying client starts around $500 if you’re a man under 30. Otherwise, memberships can run north of $10,000. The pricier memberships come with additional services like personal coaching, image consultation, and the option to make your search national.

All contracts include unlimited matches and last for 12 months, as you'll have the ability to suspend your service as needed.

Matchmaking fees are non-refundable in most circumstances, and they don’t guarantee you’ll actually get any matches. As with any contract, read it carefully prior to signing so you understand exactly what service you’ll be receiving in exchange for your money.

What People Have To Say About Their Simply Matchmaking Experience

On Yelp, Simply Matchmaking has been reviewed 50+ times, resulting in a solid 2.8-star rating.

In their recommended reviews, some happy customers said they had found a serious relationship via the service:

5-star Simply Matchmaking review on Yelp
5-star Yelp review for Simply Matchmaking

This customer didn’t meet their ideal partner through Simply Matchmaking, but was satisfied with the quality of the service and thought they had picked up some valuable insight along the way:

4-star Simply Matchmaking Yelp review

Other customers however didn’t have such glowing things to say. These clients felt that the service does not cater enough to their female members. In their words:

1-star Simply Matchmaking Yelp review

Simply Matchmaking 1-star Yelp review
1-star Simply Matchmaking Yelp review

 

Simply Matchmaking Google Reviews

Simply Matchmaking also has a 4.3-star rating when it comes to Google reviews, based on 40+ reviews. The majority of reviews are 5-star.

One Google reviewer was thrilled to have met someone through the service and dated for a few months, even though it did not work out in the long run:

5-star Google review for Simply Matchmaking

Another praised his overall experience:

5-star Simply Matchmaking review on Google

Of course you can’t predict exactly what your Simply Matchmaking experience would be like from feedback on local review sites. But they do make a handy starting point for jotting down a list of questions to ask during your consultation.

In the meantime, one thing to consider when hiring a matchmaking service is how you feel about signing a 12-month contract that doesn’t actually guarantee you’ll get any matches at all, as Migliore explained in her response to a Yelp complaint:

Simply Matchmaking review response about not guaranteeing matches

If You're Not Ready to Sign a 12-Month Contract

Wondering if a year-long, non-refundable contract with no match guarantee is the right move for you? VIDA Select is the alternative most worth looking at.

VIDA's matchmakers work in the same Pacific Northwest market, drawing from the largest source of eligible Seattle and Bellevue professionals there is. Before you meet anyone, you review their full profile and photos, so you're not walking into a blind date. You only meet people you've already decided are worth your time.

The contract structure is different by design. VIDA offers month-to-month packages that don't require a long-term contract. If the service isn't delivering, you stop paying. It's as simple as that.

VIDA also offers a 90-Day Match Guarantee, which includes at least 5 curated matches that you personally approve for $6,000. Results guaranteed, or the search continues at no additional cost.

82% of VIDA clients meet someone special within 90 days, and most find their person within 4 to 7 introductions. 

To learn more, schedule a quick, free, no-obligation phone call with one of our matchmakers.

Frequently Asked Questions

How much does Simply Matchmaking cost?

Database interview fees are $275 (virtual) or $500 (in-person). VIP memberships start around $500 for men under 30 and can run north of $10,000 for others. Higher-tier packages include additional services like personal coaching, image consultation, and national search options.

How long are Simply Matchmaking contracts?

All Simply Matchmaking contracts last 12 months and include unlimited matches. You can suspend your service as needed, but fees are non-refundable in most circumstances.

Does Simply Matchmaking guarantee matches?

No. Simply Matchmaking does not guarantee you'll receive any matches during your contract period. This is something to clarify during your consultation before signing.

What areas does Simply Matchmaking serve?

Simply Matchmaking primarily serves the Pacific Northwest, with most clients in Seattle and Bellevue. They also work with a network of matchmakers across the country for clients seeking a national search.

What are Simply Matchmaking's reviews like?

Reviews are mixed. Simply Matchmaking has a 4-star rating on Google with 40+ reviews (mostly 5-star), but a 2.8-star rating on Yelp with 40+ reviews. Some clients found relationships, while others—particularly female members—reported dissatisfaction with the service.

Who does Simply Matchmaking work with?

Simply Matchmaking serves a diverse clientele ranging from 21 to 80 years old, including straight, gay, bisexual, and transgender singles seeking committed relationships.

What's the difference between database membership and VIP membership?

Database members pay an interview fee to have their profile included and may be matched with paying clients, but there's no active search on their behalf. VIP members pay for a matchmaker to actively search for compatible matches.

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