The 5 Best Exclusive Dating Apps For 2026 [Official Ranking]

Match, Bumble and Hinge are great for the general population. But if you want to fish in more exclusive waters, these are the 5 best exclusive dating sites & apps to drop a line in 2026.

#1. The League - The Gold Standard

When it comes to exclusive dating apps, The League sets the gold standard. Not only is there a huge waitlist to get in, but your profile also has to pass muster with the app's highly selective algorithm.

The singles you'll find are more than worth the wait. You'll receive 5 matches per day, and you have three weeks to say "yes" or "no" to a match before it expires. If it's a mutual "yes", you can start messaging.

You will only be shown matches that fit your criteria, such as gender, age, height, distance, education, and ethnicity. The app values your privacy, so your profile will only be visible to mutual matches who meet your criteria.

Users can also interact within the group chat function, where you can join or create special interest groups.

The League Membership Tiers

The app is free to download with 4 paid membership levels:

• Member - Starting at $33/week for 3 months
• Owner - Starting at $62/week for 2 months
• Investor - Starting at $249/week for 1 month
• VIP - Starting at $625/week for 1 month

If you live in a large city like NY, LA, San Francisco, or London, the app is a must if you're looking for intelligent, attractive matches. Want to learn more? Check out our detailed review of The League.

#2. Raya - Ultra-Exclusive for Creative Professionals

If you're in the entertainment industry, give this ultra-exclusive app a try. Billed as a dating app for creative people, Raya has gained a reputation as "Tinder for the super famous."

But don't worry if you're not a celebrity (yet) - you can still use the app provided you pass the rigorous screening process. If you have the right kind of job (i.e. in the "creative" industry), know the right people, and have a large Instagram following, you might have a chance.

Potential members are granted admission via an "anonymous global selection committee," which is where knowing the right people comes in handy. Acceptance criteria includes a referral from an existing Raya member, as well as a large Instagram following. But once you're in, it's glorious - as in date a Sports Illustrated swimsuit model glorious.

Raya intentionally flies under the radar, which explains the “Tinder Illuminati" nickname. The app fiercely guards the privacy of its users, including having security measures to prevent screenshots of celebrities from going viral.

Raya Pricing

• Standard Membership: $19.99 per month, $89.99 for 6 months, or $119.99 for the year
• Raya+ (Premium): $49.99 monthly, $239.99 for 6 months, or $349.99 for the year

Check out our complete review of Raya for more details on all the premium features.

#3. Luxy - "Tinder Minus the Poor People"

This dating app bills itself as "Tinder minus the ugly and poor people," and Luxy doesn't disappoint in that regard. Users are specifically screened for both attractiveness and net worth.

To get in, you have to survive the 24-hour "vouching" process, where Luxy users vote on your worthiness to join their ranks based on your photos and profile.

If you don't make the grade, you can still get in by verifying your income - but only if you make over $200,000 a year. As in real life, money talks - you can buy your way past all those judgmental gatekeepers by immediately upgrading to Luxy Black.

Luxy Membership Options

• Additional swiping opportunities (basic users limited to 30/day)
• Message other users whether matched or not
• Premium search features like location and income level

• All Luxy Black perks included
• Profile prioritization and monthly boosts

Luxy's users tend to congregate in major metro areas, so if you're in a city like NY or LA and your standards are incredibly high, Luxy is definitely worth a look. For everything you need to know about Luxy, check out our Luxy app review.

#4. MillionaireMatch - Millions of Verified Users

Pricing: $35-$70/month
Best For: Verified millionaires seeking serious relationships
Entry Method: Open signup with income verification option

There are millions of users on MillionaireMatch and features like income verification attract gorgeous women who are serious about finding a relationship. There's no shortage of eligible gentlemen either.

And if you're looking for something more casual, you'll find that too. Women tend to be highly responsive on MillionaireMatch, another reason we prefer it over other exclusive sites.

To get the most out of MillionaireMatch, you'll need to upgrade to paid membership. For men, only paid users can send messages or access all the search functions. The cost of upgrading ranges from $35 to $70/month, depending on how many months you commit to up front.

You can read our complete MillionaireMatch review here, then learn how to write a profile for MillionaireMatch that will multiply your results.

#5. Sugardaddie.com - Mutually Beneficial Arrangements

Both men and women have to pay to send and receive messages on the site, which goes a long way towards weeding out scammers and escorts. But you'll still have to do some heavy curating on your matches - or hire a virtual dating assistant to do all the hard work for you.

An upgraded membership costs $119 for a year, or you can buy monthly packages: $89/6 months, $54/3 months, or $28/1 month.

The site can be glitchy and slow to load at times, but overall it's got a classier vibe than many of the other sugar daddy sites. For all the details, check out this Sugardaddie.com review.

You may have tried this popular dating app in the past, but Tinder Select is a bit different: you'll instantly have access to the "best of Tinder". They claim it's only offered to 1% of users, and the only way to join is via an invitation.

Tinder Select opens the door to features that are not included through Tinder Platinum, Tinder Gold, or Tinder Plus memberships. 

One of these new features includes a matchmaking experience and VIP search option. Tinder Select users can also DM singles they haven't matched with yet, leave their profile visible to a potential match's 'Likes You' feed, use Select Mode, and display their 'Select' badge on their profile.

Prices start at $499 for 1 month, which is a steep increase from Tinder's other premium tiers. Curious about this ultra-expensive Tinder membership for VIPs? Read our full review of Tinder Select.

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Which is the most exclusive dating app?
Raya is considered the most exclusive, requiring referrals from existing members, approval from an anonymous committee, creative industry credentials, and a large Instagram following. Tinder Select is also ultra-exclusive at just 1% of Tinder users, but it's invitation-only.

How much do exclusive dating apps cost?
Prices vary significantly: The League ($33-$625/week), Raya ($19.99-$349.99/year), Luxy ($99-$999), MillionaireMatch ($35-$70/month), Sugardaddie.com ($28-$119), and Tinder Select ($499/month). Most offer free basic accounts with limited features.

Do you need to be rich to use exclusive dating apps?
Not always. While Luxy requires $200K+ income verification and MillionaireMatch targets millionaires, others like The League focus on education and career accomplishments. Raya prioritizes creative industry connections over wealth. However, premium memberships are expensive across all platforms.

Which exclusive dating app is best for professionals?
The League is best for educated professionals, screening for career accomplishments and education level. It works best in major cities (NYC, LA, SF, London) and attracts intelligent, ambitious singles. MillionaireMatch is also excellent for verified wealthy professionals.

How do you get accepted into exclusive dating apps?
Acceptance methods vary: The League uses algorithm screening and waitlists, Raya requires referrals and committee approval, Luxy offers 24-hour member vouching or income verification, while MillionaireMatch and Sugardaddie have open signup. Paying for premium membership often bypasses screening processes.

Are exclusive dating apps worth the money?
If you live in a major city, meet the app's criteria (income, profession, attractiveness), and value quality over quantity in matches, exclusive apps can be worth the investment. However, users outside major metros may find better value on mainstream apps or by using VIDA Select's professional services.