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Frequently Asked Questions

Most singles today find modern dating to be downright exhausting. They’re frustrated by the lack of quality matches. And then there’s all that valuable time, countless hours wasted swiping, screening, and messaging.

That's why we reimagined the dating process: here, you are in the driver's seat. You can pick and choose who you want to meet based on their bio and photos. The service is designed for busy professionals who value their time and prefer quality over quantity.

No more wasting dozens of hours on dating apps hoping you’ll finally meet someone you like. You’ll only meet men who truly capture your interest. We don’t just set up dates; we set up the right dates so meeting your ideal partner feels effortless.
VIDA Select accesses the world’s largest pool of eligible singles, far surpassing the limited reach of traditional matchmakers.

Our modern approach means no blind dates. You get full profiles with photos, so you're always in control of who you meet.

Most matchmakers require a 6+ month contract and tens of thousands of dollars upfront before they present a single match. But we get our clients into relationships in half of the time and at a fraction of the cost.

The best part is we offer flexible monthly packages since we’re so confident in our ability to deliver results quickly. It’s pay-as-you-go, so you won’t be on the hook for search time you don’t need. Plus, it’s on us to earn your business each month by exceeding your expectations until you meet that special someone.
82% of clients begin a relationship within just 3 months of starting the service.
The setup process is usually completed within 10 days, and you can generally expect to meet your first match about a week later.
The frequency of your matches is tailored to your preferences. Most clients choose to meet around one match per week until they start a relationship, which typically happens within three months.

While a specific outcome isn’t guaranteed—since you could hypothetically reject all of the matches we present—the vast majority of clients are thrilled with both the quality and cadence of results delivered.

We meticulously comb through thousands of profiles to find your very best matches. Our team focuses on the most promising prospects to ensure each presentation is a step closer to your ideal partner.

You decide which matches to approve based on their profiles and photos. This tailored approach ensures the men you meet make you think, 'Now this is what I've been looking for.'

We adhere to strict confidentiality, and everyone on our team is bound by a Nondisclosure Agreement. We’ll never reveal personal information such as your last name or phone number without your explicit permission.

We work with several background check services and can use them to more comprehensively screen your matches before or after the first date. Your first dates will be in a public place, and we also advise clients to take basic precautions to ensure safety and peace of mind.
It's entirely possible for you to meet 'the one' right away with VIDA Select. In fact, it happens all of the time!

This is one of the reasons we don’t require long-term contracts. Instead, our service is structured as a pay-as-you-go, monthly package. If you find that special someone on the first try, we celebrate your success and make it easy for you to pause or end your search.

At VIDA Select, our reputation and results speak for themselves. Our clients rate us as a 4.7 out of 5 on Trustpilot because of how well our service works: 82% of clients start relationships within 3 months.
While most of our clients are in their late 20s to late 60s, we’ve performed successful searches for clients as young as 18 and as old as 87.
Our matchmakers can perform searches in just about any urban area across the globe. We can also help clients in more rural areas who are willing to meet matches via video or travel for their dates.
We understand that each client's search is unique, which is why we have an array of package options. Every client pays the same price for the best-suited one, but we need to learn more about your specific needs before we can recommend the ideal package for you.

To schedule your consultation and learn more, go here to answer a few quick questions and book a call with one of our matchmaking advisors.

To see hundreds of real customer reviews, visit VIDA Select’s Trustpilot page. We're super proud of our rating: 4.7 out of 5 stars. (Best in the industry!)
The first step is seeing if you qualify. Just click here, answer a few basic questions, and if you qualify, you’ll be immediately invited to book a complimentary consultation with one of our matchmaking advisors.