Three Day Rule vs Tawkify [Which Matchmaker Is Better?]

Neither service definitively "wins" - your choice depends on three key factors: blind date comfort level, budget flexibility, and geographic search needs.

Choose Tawkify if you're comfortable with blind dates and want unlimited matches, with pricing starting around $4,900 but potentially reaching $70,000+ for VIP services.

Select Three Day Rule if you prefer seeing photos before meeting and want guaranteed match minimums, with costs beginning at $5,900 and VIP memberships starting at $19,500+.

Both require multi-month contracts, but Three Day Rule offers national search access to all clients while Tawkify limits multi-city searches to VIP members only.

💡 Key Insights:

• Price comparison: Tawkify ranges from $4,900 to $70,000+, while Three Day Rule costs between $5,900 and $19,500+ for their matchmaking services.
• Photo policies differ: Tawkify arranges blind dates without sharing photos beforehand, while Three Day Rule allows clients to review photos and profiles before meeting.
• Match guarantees: Three Day Rule offers specific guarantees (minimum 3 matches over 3 months or 6 matches over 6 months), while Tawkify offers unlimited matches during your contract period.
• Geographic reach: Only Tawkify's VIP clients can search in multiple cities, whereas Three Day Rule offers national search capabilities to all clients.
• Membership options: Both services offer free database membership for potential matches, with Tawkify also offering a $9.99/month "Matchable Membership" for budget-conscious singles.
• Contract flexibility: Both services require contracts, with Three Day Rule offering 3-6 month terms and Tawkify including "hold time" for VIP clients.

Now, let's take a closer look at each service.

Company Background

Founded in 2012, Tawkify has established itself as a prominent national dating service with a network of over 50 professional matchmakers operating across more than 30 major US cities. According to the Tawkify website, their database has over 1 million singles.

Membership Tiers & Pricing

Matchmaker Client: Work one-on-one with a dedicated matchmaker who selects compatible matches from their database based on your preferences. They handle all the date arrangements, taking the stress out of planning.

VIP Client Membership: Includes multi-city searches, recruiting beyond the existing database, the flexibility to place memberships on hold, optional background checks on potential matches, and personalized dating coaching.

Matchable Membership: Budget-conscious singles can opt for this passive option at just $9.99 monthly. This adds your profile to Tawkify's database, making you visible to matchmakers searching for clients. While you won't have a dedicated matchmaker actively searching on your behalf, you might be contacted if your profile matches a paying client's preferences.

The Blind Date Approach

One aspect of Tawkify's approach you'll want to consider: unlike many modern dating services, Tawkify doesn't share photos of potential matches before your meeting. This means you'll essentially be going on a blind date.

Further Reading: Tawkify review.

Company Background

Founded by Talia Goldstein in 2010, Three Day Rule operates in 12 cities across the United States. The company structures its services through several membership tiers, similar to other matchmaking services in the industry.

Membership Options & Pricing

Free Database Membership: Allows singles to be included in their pool of potential matches. This passive membership doesn't provide direct access to a matchmaker - your profile simply remains in their system unless you match a paying client's criteria.

3-Month Package: $5,900 with at least 3 guaranteed matches

6-Month Package: $9,500 with a minimum of 6 guaranteed matches

VIP Membership: Covers a 6-month search period with contracts beginning at $19,500

Million Dollar Matchmaking: For a cool million, enjoy a year's worth of concierge-style matchmaking, including coaching and date prep services such as styling, hair/makeup for both you and your dates. They'll even throw in a 3-carat diamond engagement ring.

What's Included

Standard packages include a professional photoshoot and two date coaching sessions as supplementary services.

Photo Preview Policy

One notable aspect of Three Day Rule's process: clients review both profiles and photos of potential matches before meeting. It's important to understand that each presented profile counts toward your guaranteed match total, regardless of whether you choose to proceed with a date.

Further Reading: Three Day Rule review.

Key Factors to Consider

When selecting a matchmaking service, it's important to evaluate key factors like your budget, desired commitment length, and where your potential matches will come from. These considerations can guide you toward the best service for your specific needs.

Contract Length & Payment Structure

Three Day Rule structures their offerings around fixed-term contracts—either 3 or 6 months—with their premium VIP service also lasting 6 months. Financial investment ranges from $5,900 to $19,500+, typically requiring full payment upfront, though some installment options might be available.

A More Flexible Alternative: VIDA Select

By contrast, VIDA Select takes a more flexible approach with month-to-month packages. This means you only pay for the time you actually use, eliminating a long-term contract. Then if you meet someone special early in the process, you won't be paying for unused search time.

Many singles are understandably hesitant about investing significant money into blind dates with minimal information about potential matches. VIDA allows clients to review detailed profiles of potential matches before arranging any meetings. This pre-approval system puts you in control of your dating experience, ensuring you only meet people who genuinely want to meet.

If you're interested in avoiding blind dates and long-term contracts, schedule a brief 20-minute phone consultation with a VIDA matchmaker to determine if our approach aligns with your dating goals and preferences. 

Intrigued? Schedule your free consultation now!