There are a lot of questionable Tinder tricks, hacks and tips out there, but this one really works. Here’s how to make those 5 Super Likes per week really count if you're a Tinder Plus subscriber!

First, like a girl in the normal way to see if you instantly match with her. If you do, then congrats - you’ve saved a Super Like. If you don’t, simply use the “Rewind” feature to undo the Like and then Super Like her.

Before you start swiping, set your blend to “Most Popular” so you can use your Super Likes on the most attractive women. If you happen to exhaust all the possible “Most Popular” matches, switch to the “Recently Active” blend. You don’t want to waste a Super Like on someone who rarely checks the app.

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But don’t just send any message. Attractive women are faced with a never-ending barrage of “Hey” and “What’s up.” She can afford to be picky, so she’s only going to respond to the best Tinder lines. If you want her to put the effort into responding, then put some effort into your message.

Don’t let a match fizzle out because you didn’t want to make the first move. She swiped right too, so don’t waste the opportunity. And doing just that is surprisingly common. In fact, dating consultant CamMi Pham once logged an incredible 2,015 matches in 17 hours - but only around 30% of the men sent her a message.

That means unless she grabbed the conversational reigns, 70% of her matches went nowhere. In other words, simply breaking the ice is one of the most effective Tinder tricks for guys. It’s half the battle.

The best Tinder conversation starters grab her attention, pique her curiosity, and make her want to respond to you.

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Here is another first message you can send to any of your matches:

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Want more help? Check out these Tinder messaging tips!

On Tinder, momentum is key. Your primary goal in any message exchange is moving things off the app before she loses interest or deletes her profile. That could mean getting her Facebook, phone number, or on a date with you.

If a message exchange turns into a chat conversation, you’ve got to strike while the iron’s hot.

Remember, it’s a conversation, not an interview. Keep it light and fun, and don’t be afraid to be a bit over the top.

It is Tinder after all… It’s better to take risks than it is to play it safe. You’ll know when you’ve taken it too far and learn quickly from your mistakes.

Keep track of what lines work for you, and whip them out whenever you need them. Don't stress over being creative and witty on the spot when you can build an arsenal of go-to responses suitable for just about any occasion.

For example, if she says something like: “... I’m not sure how to respond to that.”

Respond with: “It’s ok, you don’t have to say anything. Just tell me about yourself since your profile comes up a bit short. Netflix or Nightlife? Beach or mountain weekend? White, milk or dark chocolate?”

Always ask a question to keep the conversation moving forward. Posing questions like “So when’s the last time you did something adventurous or spontaneous?” can naturally lead to asking her to meet up. Keep reading for techniques that will have her saying “yes” every time.

For a complete Tinder conversation strategy, check out this handy guide.

Convincing her to move things off the app can be tricky. You know she’s not on Tinder looking for a pen pal, but you don’t want to ask her out too soon and scare her off.

Here are some signs that will let you know when to ask her out on Tinder:

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Then, once you’re seeing indications she’s in the right frame of mind, here’s a list of “DO’s” that will have her saying yes to a date in no time:

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• Ask for her number early in the interaction. That way, if her Tinder profile disappears, you still have a way to continue the conversation.
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• If she’s in her early 20s or 30s, suggest “meeting up” rather than a “date.” Meeting up has a more casual vibe, whereas date is a more emotionally loaded, high-pressure word. But if she’s 35+ and looking for something serious, the opposite can be true. She’d rather invest her time in a real “date” than on something more casual.
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• Offer two choices - meeting up for coffee or drinks, for example.
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• Suggest meeting in a public place - that’s safer for her, so she’s more likely to agree to meet you.
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These “DO’s” really work, because VIDA Select’s team of online dating experts analyzed thousands of conversations that led to dates for our male clients. Which brings us to the last of our Tinder tricks and tips…

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