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Top 4 Professional Matchmakers In Nashville [2024 Guide]

Finding matchmakers in Nashville isn’t hard - you’ve got plenty of options.

But when it comes to investing your money and time on such an important aspect of your life, you don’t want to settle for just any service - because quality varies widely throughout the matchmaking industry.

These 4 matchmaking services are worth considering when it comes to finding your perfect match.

Our team of matchmaking experts compiled this informative guide to help singles in Nashville find the best matchmaker. Our experience in the industry dates back to 2009, so we're well acquainted with the major (and minor) players. We’ve written more than 200 reviews of matchmaking services, leveraging our in-depth knowledge of the industry and first-hand understanding of what clients value most.

And at the end of this short guide, you’ll get 5 crucial questions to ask any matchmaker you’re thinking about hiring - and expert advice that will help ensure you make the right decision for you.


Enamour website

Perfect for those seeking a highly tailored experience, Enamour maintains a curated, invitation-only database of exception singles. The seasoned matchmaking team has been in the industry since 2009.


This elite service works with accomplished and selective singles from all over the world.


Packages begin around $20,000 for a 6-month membership, with searches customized to fit each client's requirements.

What To Expect

The matchmaking process starts with an interview. During this call with your dedicated personal matchmaker, she'll learn more about your lifestyle, interests, goals, etc. And, of course, all about your ideal partner, deal breakers, and must haves.

Once she's compiled a profile of your perfect match, she'll dive into Enamour's curated database to pinpoint compatible singles. But the search doesn't stop there - the team leverages recruiting technology as well as an extensive scouting network to pinpoint candidates from a variety of offline and online sources.

Each potential match then goes through a rigorous screening process, with your matchmaker diving into the heart of long-term compatibility. The vetting is conducted either in person or via video call. You'll then have the opportunity to review a profile and photo array of each match who passes the screening.

Introductions are arranged for you by the team, and your matchmaker will check in afterward to gather feedback she can use to finetune the search. She'll also check in with your match, then pass along to you any helpful insights.

Additional Services

Personal styling, professional photography, dating/relationship coaching, and image consulting

VIDA Select (by Scott Valdez)

Scott Valdez

Finding your perfect match in Nashville just got a lot easier, thanks to VIDA Select’s elite matchmaking team.

VIDA blends traditional matchmaking with modern tech and data analysis, which means your matchmaker isn’t limited to an internal database. Instead, you’ll be meeting compatible, high-quality singles carefully selected from the biggest pool of Nashville singles you’ll find anywhere.


Most of VIDA’s clients are successful men and women in their late 20s to early 60s who are looking for marriage or a serious relationship.


Clients can choose from 3 levels of matchmaking service and a range of packages highly correlated with the total number of hours that should be dedicated to your "ideal partner" search.

No matter how many cities you'd like your matchmaker to search in or how lengthy your 'perfect match criteria' list is, VIDA has a package that fits your parameters. And since every package is pay-as-you-go, no long-term is commitment required!

Basic packages start at $1095/month. Premium packages begin at $1695/month and Elite package options start at just $2595/month. On average, clients meet someone special in just 3 months!

What To Expect

The path to finding your ideal partner starts with a 20-minute phone consultation to see if VIDA is the right fit for you. If so, you’ll work with a single dedicated matchmaker every step of the way.

Every monthly membership package includes unlimited matches. So you’re in control of the pace. You can approve or decline each potential match after reviewing a full profile, so you’ll be enjoying dates with people you’re truly excited to meet - and who are excited to meet you!

And thanks to VIDA’s pay-by-the-month structure, you’re able to put your service on hold, stop it entirely, and start it up again anytime you’d like.

Additional Services

Dating coaching, image consulting, personal styling/shopping, professional photography

Serious Matchmaking (by Janis & Carly Spindel)

Carly Spindel & Janis Spindel

One of NYC’s most prominent matchmaking services, Janis & Carly Spindel also help singles all over the US find love - and they have a matchmaking team in Nashville. Janis Spindel launched the service in 1993.


Serious Matchmaking is an elite dating agency that typically only takes on successful and discerning men as paying clients.


$25,000 - $1,000,000 for a 1-year contract.

Women can pay a $250 to $1,250 screening fee for a chance to have their profile included in the Spindels’ national database of singles for possible matching.

For men, the cost of the matchmaking services depends on what level of service you want - and which matchmaker you want to provide. Carly’s matchmaking packages start at $25,000 and can range over $350,000. Working with Janis costs more, with her services starting at $50,000 and going all the way up to $1,000,000.

There is a signing fee that starts at $65,000. If you and one of your matches date for 12 months, get engaged, or move in together, you'll also owe a finder's fee of the same amount.

Per New York law, all matchmaking packages include a year’s worth of services and 12 introductions.

If those numbers aren’t in your budget, you could purchase a $6,000 “Flash Match” event. You’ll be introduced to 6 women during an event hosted in your honor.

What To Expect

The Serious Matchmaking process is much the same as other traditional matchmakers.

After an initial consultation where the terms of your contract are outlined and your ‘ideal partner’ criteria discussed, you’ll be introduced to your selected matches one at a time. You’re also expected to discuss how the date went so that your matchmaker can take your feedback into account when choosing your next match.

Further Reading

Serious Matchmaking Reviews

LUMA Luxury Matchmaking (by April Davis)

LUMA Matchmaking Nashville homepage

Like the other matchmaking services on this list, LUMA isn’t headquartered in Tennessee. April Davis started "Cupid's Cronies" in Minneapolis in 2010, and later rebranded. LUMA now has offices all over the US, with a local branch in Nashville.


LUMA offers matchmaking services for both men and women.


$2,800 - $100,000, with the details outlined in contract

Singles can apply to have a profile included LUMA’s database at no cost, however you may never be matched with any of their paying clients.

The final cost of a matchmaking package varies per client, with factors like contract length, how many singles you’d like to meet, etc. affecting the price tag.

What To Expect

Many matchmaking services search for compatible matches one at a time, but LUMA does it with a bit of a twist. Instead of finding just one, your matchmaker will select up to 40 profiles from the Nashville database.

Those 40 will then be further screened, with a smaller number of them asked to come in for a personal interview. Of that number, you are guaranteed to have a date with a minimum of 3.

Should things go well during the introduction, you and your match can decide to exchange phone numbers, or other contact info.

Further Reading

LUMA Luxury Match Reviews

3 Crucial Steps To Take Before Hiring A Nashville Matchmaker

Whether you decide to contact one of the elite matchmaking services on this list, or another one you’ve got in mind, there are 3 things you need to do before picking up the phone:

#1: Dig Deeper Than Yelp Reviews

Many matchmaking services, especially the high-end ones, may not have internet reviews at all. Clients often are simply too busy to post one, or don't want their name popping up in connection with a matchmaking service.

But for other matchmaking services, local review sites can be an easy, quick source of information.

Seeing how a matchmaking service responds to Yelp, Google and other platforms like RipOffReport can give you a glimpse into a company’s overall approach to customer service, and you may find interesting tidbits of information relating to price and contract details.

Those types of reviews aren’t often verified though - so there’s a chance effusively positive ones could have been posted by employees, while overly negative ones could be from the competition. While many of them likely represent honest experiences, it’s best to take internet reviews with a grain or two of salt.

Local news stations often run stories on matchmaking services that have been accused of failing to deliver on what they promised, like this story on Nashville Matchmakers by News Channel 5:

The Better Business Bureau is another good place to check for complaints and fraud allegations. And it can’t hurt to check public records for lawsuits, either pending or settled.

#2: Prepare A List Of Questions To Ask During Your Consultation

You’ve no doubt put a lot of thought into what type of person your “ideal partner” is. But have you thought about what your ideal matchmaking service would be?

For instance, do you want to see photos of your matches before spending time and money on a date? Or are you okay with a verbal description? Will you need the ability to pause your service for travel, or in the event you need to take some time away from dating?

Matchmaking services vary widely when it comes to processes and procedures, so having a clear idea in mind of what you want and need will help ensure you choose the service that best fits you.

Here are 5 more important questions to ask any potential matchmakers in Nashville:

Good Questions To Ask A Matchmaker

There is no correct answer - decide beforehand what you’re comfortable with, and let that be your guide.

#3: Separate Your Emotions From The Contract

With some matchmaking companies, your initial consultation can veer into “sales pitch” territory. They often include hard sell tactics that play directly on your emotions.

But don’t let that distract you from taking as long as you need to review and understand exactly what the contract is spelling out. Because once you’ve signed it and paid up front for the service, you’re basically stuck with it. Most matchmaking services don’t make guarantees or provide refunds.

Read the fine print so you know exactly what’s being promised. For instance, let's say you're “guaranteed” 10 matches. Will they be people who meet all your criteria, or is the service only promising to try and find compatible people?

If you decline to meet someone they’ve presented to you because you’re not attracted to them, does that count as a match anyway? Is there an end date specified in your contract, or could you conceivably have to wait months or even years before being introduced to someone?

Understanding exactly what you’re about to pay for will help prevent frustration down the line. Because once you’ve signed on the dotted line, you’re committed - for better or worse.

But not all matchmaking services require lengthy contracts where you could end up paying for a year’s worth of search time, even if you meet The One right out of the gate.

With VIDA, you pay month-to-month, so you don’t need to worry about getting locked into a pricey commitment. Want to learn more?

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Since 2009, thousands of clients have discovered true love thanks to VIDA Select’s fresh, modern approach to matchmaking – which has finally thrown blind dates and long-term contracts out the window. This isn't your grandmother’s matchmaking!

Instead of working with a single matchmaker using a small rolodex of potential partners, VIDA Select’s matchmaking team taps into the world’s largest database of available singles. We’ll quickly identify the matches who check all of your boxes so you can finally experience true chemistry. Are you ready to become our next success story? Schedule your complimentary consultation now by clicking the button below!

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