How long should my Match.com profile be?

Keep your "In My Own Words" section between 225-275 words. This length is long enough to showcase your personality and give her conversation starters, but short enough to hold attention on mobile screens. Research shows the ideal ratio is 70% about yourself and 30% describing your ideal partner.

What's the biggest mistake men make on their Match profiles?

Telling instead of showing. Saying "I'm adventurous and funny" means nothing without proof. Instead, share a brief story or specific example that demonstrates these traits. A two-sentence anecdote about your recent hiking trip or the cooking disaster that turned into your signature dish shows personality far better than a list of adjectives.

How often should I update my Match profile?

Make small updates every 1-2 weeks. Match.com's algorithm rewards active users by boosting their profiles in search results. Rotate your photos, tweak a paragraph, or update one of your Topics. Even minor changes signal to the algorithm that you're an engaged user worth showing to potential matches.

Should I include what I'm looking for in a partner?

Yes—dedicate roughly 30% of your profile to describing your ideal match. Be specific but positive: describe what you want rather than listing dealbreakers. End with a call to action like "If that sounds like you, message me" to encourage her to reach out.

What topics should I avoid on Match.com?

Skip anything that sounds negative, bitter, or demanding. Avoid mentioning exes, listing things you don't want, or complaining about the dating process. Negativity is one of the fastest ways to get passed over. If you choose a "negative" prompt from Match's Topics, make sure you can spin your answer into something humorous or charming.

Do Match.com profiles really matter that much?

Absolutely. Your profile determines whether she reads your message or deletes it. A well-crafted profile gives her reasons to respond—stories to reference, interests to connect over, and confidence that you're someone worth meeting. The best opening message in the world won't help if your profile doesn't back it up.