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5 POF Openers That Get Responses [Try One Right Now!]

5 POF Openers That Get Responses [Try One Right Now!]

Looking for POF openers because you're tired of an inbox like this? It’s not her - it’s you. More specifically, your opening lines. The hotter she is, the more message she gets - that’s a scientific fact, right up there with Murphy’s Law. If your go-to POF opener is boring, lame, or totally forgettable, it […]
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How To Ask A Girl For Her Number Online

How To Ask A Girl For Her Number Online

Thanks to your killer profile, strong photos, and irresistible icebreaker messages, you’ve been messaging back and forth with several attractive woman online. You know she’s not looking for a penpal, but the question is - now what? After putting so much work into getting her attention, the last thing you want is for her to […]
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7 Chemistry Pick Up Lines That Really Work

7 Chemistry Pick Up Lines That Really Work

Chemistry.com was designed to help people find “The One,” so women on the site are likely looking for serious daters. Lame pick up lines like “Hey, sexy” and “Ur hot” aren’t going to cut it with this crowd. And if she’s attractive, you know you’ve got a lot of competition. So why put in the […]
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POF Opening Lines That Work [On Just About Any Woman!]

POF Opening Lines That Work [On Just About Any Woman!]

Struggling to get a response from attractive women with your current POF opening lines? You’re not alone - getting quality women to respond is no easy feat. In fact, dating app AYI’s statistics show the average guy has to send 114 messages just to be 99% certain that you’ll get one reply. What if we […]
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Best Way To Start A Conversation With A Girl Online

Best Way To Start A Conversation With A Girl Online

You’ve got the hard part out of the way - you’ve written a rock-solid online dating profile and chosen some kick ass photos to go with it. Now you’ve found the perfect girl online and you’re ready to reach out. Get ready for the really hard part… what’s the best way to start a conversation […]
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How To Start An Online Dating Conversation

How To Start An Online Dating Conversation

Attention-grabbing profile, check. Strong pictures highlighting all your best traits, check. Now you're wondering how to start an online dating conversation, and this article breaks it down into four easy steps: Do a little recon for icebreaker inspiration. Send the first message. Follow up with a second if needed. Know when to move things offline. […]
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How To Ask A Girl Out Online

How To Ask A Girl Out Online

You’ve started out on the right foot. Your magnetic profile, strong photos, and killer conversation starters have you exchanging messages with several beautiful women. The conversations are going great, and you’re pretty sure they’re into you. It’s time to ask them out. But if you don’t know how to ask a girl out online, don’t […]
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Crafting The Perfect Online Dating Message Opener

Crafting The Perfect Online Dating Message Opener

When it comes to online dating, there is one question that every guy asks: “What can I do to get more responses to my openers?”  And rightfully so, because getting responses from the caliber of women you really want to meet is generally the biggest hurdle you face. Online dating is a numbers game where […]
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Copy & Paste Dating Messages WORK: Proof & Examples

Copy & Paste Dating Messages WORK: Proof & Examples

With all the cheesy pickup lines floating around the internet, it’s no wonder you’re skeptical about using cut & paste dating messages. But using a lame opener like “Hey” isn’t working. And you don’t have time to spend 15-20 minutes writing one custom message, painstakingly crafted to include specific details mined from her profile for […]
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When Should You Ask A Girl Out Online? [Our Secret Formula]

When Should You Ask A Girl Out Online? [Our Secret Formula]

Feeling frustrated because too many promising message exchanges are fizzling out and leaving you feeling rejected? Chances are you’re asking her out at the wrong time. Try to move things off the app or site too soon, and you risk scaring her off. But stall too long and she’ll probably ghost in favor of a […]
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How To Start A Conversation With A Girl Online

How To Start A Conversation With A Girl Online

Tired of matching with attractive women on apps like Tinder and OkCupid, but not getting any responses to your messages? If you don’t know how to start a conversation with a girl online, you’re in for a frustrating experience. You’re not going to meet any high quality matches if you can’t even get the conversation […]
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