Proven Messaging Tips & Examples From VIDA's Dating Experts

5 Great Openers For Plenty Of Fish [Field-Tested & Effective!]

Looking for POF openers because you're tired of an inbox like this? It’s not her - it’s you. More specifically, your opening lines. The hotter she is, the more message she gets - that’s a scientific fact, right up there with Murphy’s Law. If your go-to POF opener is boring, lame, or totally forgettable, it […]

How To Get A Girl's Number On Any Dating App

💡 Key Insights: You've done the hard part—created a compelling profile, selected strong photos, and crafted messages that actually got responses from attractive women. But now comes the crucial transition that derails many promising connections: moving the conversation from the dating platform to direct contact. Ask too soon or phrase it awkwardly, and she might […]

Proven POF Openers You Can Send To Any Match!

💡 Key Insights: Tired of sending message after message on Plenty of Fish with nothing to show for it? You're not alone. Dating app statistics reveal the sobering truth—the average guy must send 114 messages to be 99% certain of receiving just one reply. But what if the solution isn't working harder, but working smarter? […]

How To Start An Online Dating Conversation [& Get A Date!]

Attention-grabbing profile, check. Strong pictures highlighting all your best traits, check. Now you're wondering how to start an online dating conversation, and this article breaks it down into four easy steps. And you'll get 5 effective first message examples! A quick Google search will reveal there are tons of guys who already know how difficult […]

The Right Way To Ask A Girl Out Online [Get More Dates & Numbers!]

You’ve started out on the right foot. Your magnetic profile, strong photos, and killer conversation starters have you exchanging messages with several beautiful women. The conversations are going great, and you’re pretty sure they’re into you. It’s time to ask them out. But if you don’t know how to ask a girl out online, don’t […]

Do Copy & Paste Dating Messages Work? [Why You Should Try It!]

With all the cheesy pickup lines floating around the internet, it’s no wonder you’re skeptical about using cut & paste dating messages. But using a lame opener like “Hey” isn’t working. And you don’t have time to spend 15-20 minutes writing one custom message, painstakingly crafted to include specific details mined from her profile for […]

When To Ask A Girl Out Online [& How To Get Her To Say Yes!]

💡 Key Insights: Feeling frustrated because too many promising message exchanges are fizzling out and leaving you feeling rejected? Chances are you’re asking her out at the wrong time. Try to move things off the app or site too soon, and you risk scaring her off. But stall too long and she’ll probably ghost in […]

How To Start A Conversation With Girls Online [+ First Message Examples!]

Tired of matching with attractive women on apps like Tinder and OkCupid, but not getting any responses to your messages? If you don’t know how to start a conversation with a girl online, you’re in for a frustrating experience. You’re not going to meet any high quality matches if you can’t even get the conversation […]

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