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Meet Trea Tijmens: Is SuccessMatch The Best Service For You?

Thinking about hiring Trea Tijmens as your personal matchmaker? Doing a little research on her and her company, SuccessMatch, is a savvy move.

This SuccessMatch review has everything you want to know, from how Tijmens got started to what to expect if you hire her, cost and more!

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Meet Matchmaker Trea Tijmens

Matchmaker Trea Tijmens

Tijmens was born and raised in the Netherlands but embarked on a journey to explore the world during her early adulthood. She has lived in the United States, Belgium, Germany, and Panama.

She began her career in Human Resources but later became a headhunter when she moved to Switzerland.

During her work as a headhunter and recruiter, she observed a common trend with many of the successful people she matched professionally. She described her revelation in a piece she shared on LinkedIn:

At the time I was a headhunter, I was already happily married and had my first 2 children (I have 3 now). I saw an enormous need for people who didn't have a partner in their lives. This inspired me to start my matchmaking business to help successful single professionals realize their dream of finding love. To help singles professionals become as successful in love as they are in the other areas of their lives.”

Through interviews with these affluent singles, Tijmens discovered that they dedicated a lot of time to their careers but neglected to allocate time for finding love.

To love and be loved is a basic human need. People do not thrive without love. You can have all the money and success in the world, but without love, what is the meaning of it all?”

Tijmens was inspired to become a professional matchmaker based on her combination of professional skills and passion for connecting people.

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In 2005, she founded SuccessMatch, which is headquartered in Geneva and serves clients across Switzerland. 

Her clientele ranges from individuals in their early 30s to late 60s. They are typically successful professionals, such as bankers, doctors, diplomats, and lawyers. 

As she explained in an interview a few years after launching her service, she works with a lot of high-achievers who are stuck in a vicious cycle of sorts: “...if you don’t have a personal life on the side, you tend to work even more. That makes it more difficult to find a partner.”

While SuccessMatch has Swiss roots, Tijmens' multicultural background attracts clients from various parts of the world.

Trea Tjimens’s Matchmaking Philosophy    

As she explained in an interview with Dating News

After doing this for a long time, I know what highly successful singles need to find a partner — and it’s more than just dating. I offer my support, expert advice, and guidance throughout the process.”

Tijmens firmly believes that personal development is essential before finding the right partner.

In order to find lasting love you must first be the right partner before you can find and choose the right partner. Remember: love is not by chance, it’s by choice.”

That’s why specialized coaching is one of the foundations of her service. According to Tijmens, what makes her coaching different is her high success rate. 

I now have an almost 100% success rate matching my gentlemen clients with the right partner, and my coaching program Find Your SuccessMatch with women has an 85% success rate.”

Curious about the type of dating advice this Swiss matchmaker dispenses? Here’s a taste of her best dating tips from around the web!

Trea Tijmens dating advice

As a high-end boutique matchmaker, Tjimens is selective about the clients she takes on: 

I choose to only work with people I personally like and respect, who are 100% serious about wanting to succeed in finding a partner, and 100% committed to doing the work necessary to get the results that they want.”

She only works with a small number of paying male clients at any given time, as she’s the company’s sole matchmaker.

If you’re considering hiring her, the first step is a complimentary 15-minute consultation to determine if you are a good fit for her services. 

If so, a paid 50-minute consultation follows to discuss your expectations. Next a contract is signed outlining the cost and specifics of the matchmaking or coaching package.

Once all the necessary documentation is completed, it's time to meet with Tijmens. She invests time in getting to know you better and identifies any obstacles that have been hindering your relationship goals. 

As a matchmaking client, you’ll be paired with other clients or with “Match Candidates” from her database. When both halves of a match express interest in meeting, she arranges the first date. 

Afterwards, you can check in with Tijmens and provide feedback on how you think it went. You can also let her know if you’re interested in a second date, and she’ll follow up with your match to see if they are too.

How Much Does It Cost To Hire Trea Tijmens?

The 15-minute initial consultation is free, but the 50-minute consultation session is 250 CHF. 

The service cost varies based on several factors, but pricing is not revealed on her website. Years back her matchmaking service started around $4,000 Swiss francs, so you can expect it to be in that ballpark if not more for a basic search now. 

Men can purchase Elite packages, while women can purchase Platinum packages.

The specific requirements you have for potential matches, how many dates you want, if you want to date abroad, and other particulars all affect the final price tag. Matchmaking service memberships last for 8 months.

Women can also sign up as a Match Candidate, which requires an application fee of 250 CHF. There is no charge to remain in the database after that.

Provided you pass the screening process, you’ll be contacted if your profile meets a paying client’s criteria. But as a Match Candidate there is no active search on your behalf, so you may never meet anyone this way.

Is Trea Tijmens The Right Matchmaker For You?  

Scoping out online reviews can give you some valuable insights into a matchmaking service you’re thinking about hiring. And while you likely already know they should be taken with a grain of salt or two, matchmaker reviews can give you an idea about how a company handles different aspects of customer service.

But you won’t find many online reviews of SuccessMatch.

SuccessMatch Yelp

The company has yet to be reviewed on platforms like Trustpilot, Yelp and Google.

On Local, SuccessMatch has a 5 star rating based on 2 reviews, however no text is included with either one.

Trea Tijmens has a 4.6 out 5 rating on Facebook, based on 12 reviews. However many of the reviews do not appear to be from actual clients.

A lack of online reviews isn’t uncommon, especially for boutique matchmaking services that only work with a limited number of clients. 

Since there aren’t any customer reviews you can use to help you formulate questions to ask during your initial consultation, check out this handy guide to hiring a matchmaking service! You’ll find a list of questions it’s important to ask before signing a contract.

In fact, contracts are a major consideration. It’s common practice in the matchmaking industry to provide payment in full at the time you sign up, and contract lengths often span anywhere from 6 months to a year or longer. 

According to the SuccessMatch website, matchmaking service packages last 8 months. But long-term contracts aren’t always the case. For instance, VIDA Select, an international modern matchmaking service, offers by-as-you-go packages instead.

With VIDA, you pay for every month you’d like to meet curated, hand-selected matches. That means you can stop, pause, and restart your service as needed. If you meet someone right away, or if you feel the service isn’t the right fit for you, simply don’t continue for another month.

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